I have thought that sometimes adults need a pacifier too. I sometimes need to think before I speak my mind, so I decided to implement the pacifier rule. When someone you love has something to say that might start a discussion, you can do a shout out! " Pacifier!!!!!" that person is obliged to be quiet think and then react to what you did or what they want to say. I find it a very soothing thing to do. I can actually have the time to think and then act, or react. This avoids fights. Let me know how it goes!
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